"One doesn't have to operate with great malice to do great harm. The absence of empathy & understanding are sufficient"- Charles M. Blow Unfortunately some people are missing the empathy chip in their brain.
Put your own oxygen masks on first. We can guve and help othrrs only from our overflow and reserve of good energy. We must help ourselves first and then give to others. VALUE YOURSELVES EVEN IF IT MEANS HARD WORK!
Oh my gosh! This is what I mean when I say I lived a lie - but I did not live the lie. I really loved, I really needed love, I built a family. I was lied too, he lived the lie and fooled me and everybody else. I am not the liar!
Just because a person doesn't put hands on you, that doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect, & also hurtful words. Don't settle for emotional abuse thinking it's ok because it's not physical.
Ex Recycling ♻️ -I would be the "Crazy" ex who sees through the lies. My ex husband even sent letters to our friends explaining that. So many friends awkwardly called me to tell me that my ex had sent them this weird letter.