Why can't other just be happy that we have found our joy in us and our "patchwork family" like your dad calls us? You say jealousy, I'm thinking bitterness but overall it's only the children that get hurt
its a good and bad thing. good cuz it shows if the person cares and is scared to lose you. but bad cuz what if they move on and to much jealousy in a relationship or a complicated relationship is sooooo fucking bad and i hate it .