"You do not have to make your children in to wonderful people. You just have to remind them that they are wonderful people. If you do this consistently from the day they are born they will believe it easily." -- William Martin by Naghma
Never go back! And if what broke you tries reaching out to you again, ignore them. A valuable lesson for everyone to know. If they broke you to begin with then he didn't love to fight and be better for both of you.