If someone cheats on you, its okay if you dont stop loving him immediately. I felt like an idiot when my feelings for him didnt go away the moment I found out about the betrayal. I learned eventually that that was okay and I wasnt a failure of a woman for
Wish more people were like that, on the other end- I could never be the "other woman" either. I have too much self respect and dignity to ever harm another's relationship or another person like that- even if I didn't know the wife/gf.
I didn't choose to get cheated on. I didn't choose to loose my husband to other women. I didn't choose to have our family drstroyed. I didn't choose to stop being loved. I tried to give chances. I tried to get us help. I tried
I vowed to you once, that once I had moved on, I would never look back. Getting there took longer that I hoped. But when I got there, I was true to my word. I am proud I got past that betrayal and the universe you pulled out from beneath my feet.
Congrats on getting your boyfriend to leave his loving & devoted wife for you. Your prize is a man who has no problem lying & cheating on the One person he vowed to love, honor and cherish. Good luck with that!