So true, and when you do something or change it's never good enough . I'm done trying for everyone else , I could care less what people say anymore. I would rather make life changes now when I am disliked anyway then roll out happy!
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.