One of the keys to success is passion. If you care about something or want it naturally you won't need to force yourself to work on it. The passion will be your fuel. Only work on things you are passionate about.
A correction of the common adage to "look like a girl, think like a man/boss." This gives ANYONE the freedom to do what THEY want, throwing gender roles aside. The original post is problematic, from the word girl to man.