When someone tests you, know that the end results (rewards when pass) are for you and your loved ones. Not for tester; in which they were put up to their own tests and own rewards. Some excel, some fail, some in denial, some totally oblivious.
This is true in relationships and also pertains to moving, having to say goodbye to family and friends, making a career change, saying goodbye to old habits/lifestyles,etc. Be Brave enough to say goodbye and life will reward you with a new hello :)