No matter how well you think you carry yourself, if you do not value yourself it will show. And you'll be treated by what people perceive you as. know who you are and be confident in it. know your worth and act on it.
Life asked Death, Why do people love me, but hate you? Death responded, Because you are a beautiful lie, and I'm a painful truth. A truth we must all face. So why be afraid of it? Live life fully cause we never know today may be the last