"The only thing standing between you and your goal is the BULLSHIT story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it!" <--If you want a change bad enough, you'll set your mind to it and aspire to reach that goal/change/outcome!
My mom used say this to us all the time when we were little. She would tuck us into bed and we would say, "Mom, I love you to the moon" and she would respond "Well, I love you to the moon and back!" I've been really missing her lately.