Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.
Dear Inspiration-- I don't know whether to cry or laugh at this quote! ---- I can't tell if it's killing me or it's making me stronger. Feels like this has been the story of my life for a long time, but you have to stay strong no matter what.