although your words were very sweet once in a great while, except when you were calling me nasty, vile names. Your actions completely destroyed what i felt for you. You said MY actions didn't match my words?
I'm still a "forgiver", I'm just not codependent anymore. I've taken the time and energy to understand that there is a difference between forgiving, versus living in denial of the fact that some people are just broken or toxic.
This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.