see this as a consequence of “girl power.” We spent a generation telling girls they can do anything they dream of, but never at any point did anyone think to tell boys that they have to meet girls halfway.
There's no such thing as asking for rape. If you actually go up to someone and ask them to rape you, then it's sex, not rape. If you change your mind and tell them that you don't want to, then you are no longer asking for it to happen. Then it's rape