it could say condem because juding isn't a bad thing. We always judge and that's a good thing - we judge the food we want to eat, the choices we make, the people we hang out with. The difficulty is being able to judge without condeming others judgement.
So true! I know some people in my life who have done/said some pretty crappy things to me when I was younger. Makes me not want to bring my kid around them, because I'm 25 and still remember the feeling I had when it happened. Just saying.