As a woman who has had a miscarriage and then a successful pregnancy. If you've carried a child in your womb you ARE a mother. Do not let society or anyone else tell you other wise. I wish you a VERY HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!
Trust me, I know how it feels. I know exactly how it feels to cry in the shower so no one will hear you and waiting for everyone to fall asleep so you can fall apart. For everyting to hurt so bad you just want it all to end. I know exactly how it feels.