I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.
Habla con honestidad, piensa con sinceridad y actua con integridad" would like to send this to several people, and for one person in particular, I'd like to stick it up her ass. And, back to my loving place.