Trying to fill in someone else's shoes is futile. The person will at best be a shadow of the one who shoes they are trying to fill. It is best to have new shoes (their own) rather than live in the shadow of another
Because we must be weak to be strong. All that we go through determines our strength and those who are the strongest do not have the easiest past. They did not take the smooth paved road, they took the rocky one.