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The Impact of Relationship Differences | http://beyonddivorce.com/relationship-differences/ We are very different, my soon to be Ex and I. We both knew it. I’m not sure what he thought but I thought those relationship differences wouldn’t matter all that much. Marriage, Videos, Relationship, Couple Photos, Relationship Coach, Divorce, Got Married, We Get Married, Lonely
The Impact of Relationship Differences | Colorado Relationship Coach
The Impact of Relationship Differences | http://beyonddivorce.com/relationship-differences/ We are very different, my soon to be Ex and I. We both knew it. I’m not sure what he thought but I thought those relationship differences wouldn’t matter all that much.
Memories | What are Memories? -http://beyonddivorce.com/memories/ There’s nothing like a 40th high school reunion, in a hometown I haven’t visited in a long while, to bring home the memories. As old friends and acquaintances we have our stories. Even a lot of the buildings are tied to some kind of memory. Design, Inspiration, Design Portfolios, Portfolio, Pinterest Marketing, Marketing, Layouts, Portfolios, Pinterest For Business
Memories make us who we are | Colorado Life Coach | Beyond Divorce
Memories | What are Memories? -http://beyonddivorce.com/memories/ There’s nothing like a 40th high school reunion, in a hometown I haven’t visited in a long while, to bring home the memories. As old friends and acquaintances we have our stories. Even a lot of the buildings are tied to some kind of memory.
The Honeymoon is Over | http://beyonddivorce.com/honeymoon-is-over/ Once worshipful over the beautiful place she’d purchased, even to the extent of putting in a full-priced offer without ever seeing inside it, the woman who bought my house continued with her list of complaints. “It has some quirks,” she says. Bride, Decoration, Wedding, Bridal Photoshoot, Bridal, Bride Dressing Room, Mariage, Bridal Suite, Wedding Night
The Honeymoon is Over | Colorado Life Coach
The Honeymoon is Over | http://beyonddivorce.com/honeymoon-is-over/ Once worshipful over the beautiful place she’d purchased, even to the extent of putting in a full-priced offer without ever seeing inside it, the woman who bought my house continued with her list of complaints. “It has some quirks,” she says.
The Parent Within | http://beyonddivorce.com/the-parent-within/ Most of us have been on the receiving end of a critical parent-type at one time or other in our lives. Be it an actual parent, a spouse, a coach, a baby sitter, or other authority figure. Illustrators, Funny Quotes, Childhood, Books, Inner Child, Inner Child Healing, Chapter One, Happy Kids, Happy Children's Images
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The Parent Within | http://beyonddivorce.com/the-parent-within/ Most of us have been on the receiving end of a critical parent-type at one time or other in our lives. Be it an actual parent, a spouse, a coach, a baby sitter, or other authority figure.
Getting the Love We Need | http://beyonddivorce.com/getting-love-we-need/ I have learned a lot about what causes love relationships to end. It is always more complicated than a good relationship gone bad. Many relationships begin on an unstable foundation caused by the childhood dynamics each person brings into the union. Anything on top of an already weak foundation becomes a stressor. Perspective, Art, Parents, Parenting, Special Needs, Therapy, Students, Disorders, Child
Getting the Love We Need | Love After Divorce | Divorce Coach
Getting the Love We Need | http://beyonddivorce.com/getting-love-we-need/ I have learned a lot about what causes love relationships to end. It is always more complicated than a good relationship gone bad. Many relationships begin on an unstable foundation caused by the childhood dynamics each person brings into the union. Anything on top of an already weak foundation becomes a stressor.
A major loss cracks open this fearful egoic shell and allows us a glimpse of the creative, peaceful place deep inside, sometimes for the first time in our lives. Peace, The One, Fear, Loss, Deep, Our Life, Peaceful Places, Articles
A major loss cracks open this fearful egoic shell and allows us a glimpse of the creative, peaceful place deep inside, sometimes for the first time in our lives.
A Structured Separation | http://beyonddivorce.com/a-structured-separation/ Waiting too long to address marital problems creates polarized thinking. Relationship Bliss… or Divorce.  If I don’t love you… I must hate you.  If you’re not willing to make me happy… 10 Things, Waiting, Polarized, Save Yourself, I Don T Love, Hate
Structured Separation may save your relationship. Have anything to lose?
A Structured Separation | http://beyonddivorce.com/a-structured-separation/ Waiting too long to address marital problems creates polarized thinking. Relationship Bliss… or Divorce. If I don’t love you… I must hate you. If you’re not willing to make me happy…
Thankfulness—The Gift that Keeps on Giving Sometimes emotions sneak up and take us over without our seeing them coming, especially emotions like fear and anger. Have you ever had your happiness hijacked and end up afraid or angry in a flash of time? Gratitude is one emotion that has the ability to lift us up, like air under our wings, and out of a current funk. Love and joy are what I call high frequency emotions. They are feel good emotions. Gratitude is a pry bar that creates movement... Prayers, Gratitude, Sayings, Inspirational Quotes, Thankful For Us, Thankful, Short Prayers, Give Thanks, Ways To Show Love
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Thankfulness—The Gift that Keeps on Giving Sometimes emotions sneak up and take us over without our seeing them coming, especially emotions like fear and anger. Have you ever had your happiness hijacked and end up afraid or angry in a flash of time? Gratitude is one emotion that has the ability to lift us up, like air under our wings, and out of a current funk. Love and joy are what I call high frequency emotions. They are feel good emotions. Gratitude is a pry bar that creates movement...
What makes a good relationship?  Since I work with divorcing people, I am asked that a lot. “What makes a good relationship?” I wonder myself. Don’t you? So I ask, and answers start coming to me in odd ways. The first answers that show up are what ‘it’ (whatever ‘it’ is) is not. Even though I’d rather just have The Answer, knowing what ‘it’ isn't does get me closer to knowing what it is. Barcelona, Home Ownership, Home Buying Tips, Buying Your First Home, Home Buying Process, Home Buying, Mortgage Rates, Mortgage, Real Estate Myths
What makes a good relationship? Since I work with divorcing people, I am asked that a lot. “What makes a good relationship?” I wonder myself. Don’t you? So I ask, and answers start coming to me in odd ways. The first answers that show up are what ‘it’ (whatever ‘it’ is) is not. Even though I’d rather just have The Answer, knowing what ‘it’ isn't does get me closer to knowing what it is.
Holidays Are Hard For the Divorced and Divorcing Holidays are traditionally a time for family but for the divorced and divorcing they can be anything but happy. Most of us have some happy memories of holidays spent with family, and when those times end it can feel like our world ends. Colorado, Celebration, Memories, Holiday Spending, Newly Divorced, End Of The World, Family, Holiday
Holidays for the Divorced and Divorcing - Colorado Divorce Coach
Holidays Are Hard For the Divorced and Divorcing Holidays are traditionally a time for family but for the divorced and divorcing they can be anything but happy. Most of us have some happy memories of holidays spent with family, and when those times end it can feel like our world ends.
What makes a good relationship? Here are a few things I know that a good relationship is not.  A good relationship isn't:  Pretending to be something you aren’t or that you have something you don’t. Closing your eyes to behaviors or clashes between you and hoping they won’t matter in the long run. Focusing on only the good parts and “white-knuckling” it through the uncomfortable stuff that happens in a relationship. Property For Sale, How To Buy Land, Plots For Sale, First Time Home Buyers, Real Estate Investing, Closing Costs, Real Estate News, Infrastructure, Land For Sale
You can have a Good Relationship | Colorado Relationship Coach
What makes a good relationship? Here are a few things I know that a good relationship is not. A good relationship isn't: Pretending to be something you aren’t or that you have something you don’t. Closing your eyes to behaviors or clashes between you and hoping they won’t matter in the long run. Focusing on only the good parts and “white-knuckling” it through the uncomfortable stuff that happens in a relationship.
Most of us have heard of a rebound relationship. It is a do-over, a repeat, almost like a mini-marriage. There isn’t a lot of choosing, but more a falling into relationship with the first willing person with whom we feel comfortable. Mindfulness, Lord, Feelings, Hold On, In Everything Give Thanks, Okay Gesture
6 Ways to Learn From Your Rebound Relationship - Colorado Relationship Coach
Most of us have heard of a rebound relationship. It is a do-over, a repeat, almost like a mini-marriage. There isn’t a lot of choosing, but more a falling into relationship with the first willing person with whom we feel comfortable.
Living Life in Color is the move from life as it once was, the move from the tedious day-to-day routines and/or the out of control roller coaster ride of emotional ups and downs—to the challenging yet fulfilling way of life known as personal growth and fulfillment.  Making the transition requires a change of focus—a leap from a dingy world of black, white, and gray into the unknown bright, 3-D, world of pulsating color. Whoa. How do I get on that ride?!? Black White, Focus, Color Of Life, Vibrant Colors, Growth, Life Coach, Change, Bright
10 Tips for Living Life in Color | Colorado Life Coach
Living Life in Color is the move from life as it once was, the move from the tedious day-to-day routines and/or the out of control roller coaster ride of emotional ups and downs—to the challenging yet fulfilling way of life known as personal growth and fulfillment. Making the transition requires a change of focus—a leap from a dingy world of black, white, and gray into the unknown bright, 3-D, world of pulsating color. Whoa. How do I get on that ride?!?
As my manner is I have taken the road less traveled. I’m sitting on a plateau above the Colorado River in the bronze of early morning sun. It has warmed since the 29 degrees of this morning. I woke up to a sparkly frost covering my bike, my car, and my cooler. The sun has arisen to illuminate bright yellow willows and cottonwoods filling the river valley along with emerald green hay fields, under wispy patches of fog. I’m heating my green tea and some breakfast on my little one burner stove. Road, Fields, Valley, River, Fog, Colorado River, Morning Sun, Car
Divorce - The Road Less Traveled | Colorado Divorce Coach
As my manner is I have taken the road less traveled. I’m sitting on a plateau above the Colorado River in the bronze of early morning sun. It has warmed since the 29 degrees of this morning. I woke up to a sparkly frost covering my bike, my car, and my cooler. The sun has arisen to illuminate bright yellow willows and cottonwoods filling the river valley along with emerald green hay fields, under wispy patches of fog. I’m heating my green tea and some breakfast on my little one burner stove.
You are probably well aware that your sad feelings don’t automatically end once your divorce completes. Many memories still linger. Many experiences need to be over written. It takes time... Grief, Cope, Reminder, Take That, Sad
Coping with Grief Reminders | Grief Recovery Coach
You are probably well aware that your sad feelings don’t automatically end once your divorce completes. Many memories still linger. Many experiences need to be over written. It takes time...