Stay at home dad aesthetic

fatherhood aesthetic

“I can’t get over all these deadbeat dudes, and you ladies supporting them. No way I’d put up with that," she wrote.

If there is a shared shame among us fathers doing the hidden work that women have been doing for centuries, how do we silence the voices that tell us we’re not enough of whatever it is that we think we need to be?

I thought it was just a random idiot, an anecdotal experience I could laugh at but not take too seriously. And then it happened again. And then it kept on happening. Strangers, sometimes men (but mostly women), would make off the cuff comments about me staying home to take care of my kid.