Let's pour one out right now for all the personalized matchbooks and mesh-wrapped Jordan almonds of the world. They get left behind on wedding reception tables and probably tossed in the trash at the end of the night.
It's not super rustic and I don't know about the bow/flower thingy. But the idea for a card holder is good. You could use a galvanized bucket with a chalkboard or something. I think I pinned something like that for you. - Decor It Darling