No regrets.I know what it feels like to be on a pedestal and I've learned so much about me, & who my real friends are. A better guy will come along when I least expect it. Things will get better. They're getting better day by day.
I have never pinned a wedding pin. but this is a great idea: Write love letters to him in a journal throughout the engagement, and give it to him on your wedding day. This is one of the sweetest things!
RULES: ask my dads permission. make it a complete surprise. get somebody to catch it on camera. let my best friend help with the ring. He did all but let my best friend help with the ring, but I couldn't be happier with the one he picked on his own!