The Lord is our refuge and our strength. When one calls on the Lord, He always answers. We just don't like His answer. There is always a reason God says 'no'. God always has something better for our future.
In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.