Stop saying that you can't do this or that. I used to say "I can't" all the time. My Husband helped me to make this realization. There are many things that I am no longer able to do(literally)! Now,I say that I'm not able to do these things.... that does not stop me from at least trying,not giving up Hope. I continue to give it everything I've got and that is trully a whole lot......"Can't is a mighty big word,Can't never could"!!